“Either way, never be sorry about things you have no control over. You’ll just give yourself ulcers. Never half-ass anything. Drink plenty of wine.”
―Sylvain Neuvel, Only Human
By Alex P. Vidal
AS long as we don’t accept human beings aren’t perfect, we will continue to wallow in disappointments, which come from the gap between our expectations and reality.
When what we hoped, planned, expected, or assumed would happen do not match what actually occurs, we become bitter, disenchanted, dejected, and rancorous.
Athletes, for instance, are only human beings with physical limits, prone to setbacks, and capable of being subdued just like anyone else.
No one is infallible.
Every athlete, coach, team, or referee is human and capable of making mistakes, losing, or failing. No matter how tall, big, fast, talented, dominant, or experienced someone is, perfection does not exist in competition.
Greatness can never be permanent, even as growth isn’t linear. This includes the greatest champions like Manny Pacquiao, Rafael “Paeng” Nepomuceno, Efren “Bata” Reyes, Carlos “Caloy” Yulo, who had their own share of humiliations, losses, injuries, and human failure.
Placing them on an untouchable pedestal turns natural human setbacks into public punishment or resentment when expectations are not met.
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This was apparently what happened when many fans of Alexandra “Alex” Eala couldn’t believe (and accept) she suffered three consecutive three-set losses in her recent late-2026 Asian hard-court and multi-sport appearances after winning the first set in each match.
The debacle first rolled off on September 24, 2026, when Eala, ranked no. 18 in the world, was bundled out by world No. 117 Tatiana Prozorova 6–4, 5–7, 3–6 in Round 16 of the Singapore Tennis Open.
This was followed by a disastrous 6-3, 3-6, 2-6 loss to world No. 49 Wang Xiyu in the semifinals of the recent Aichi-Nagoya Asian Games on October 1, 2026 where the young Filipino tennis star openly and sadly confessed “I really wanted the gold.”
To complete the humiliation, Eala succumbed to world no. 217 Shi Han 6-4, 3-6,3-6 in the Round of 64 in Wuhan Open on Oct 12, 2026.
The breathtaking defeats were hard to swallow for many Eala fans who had expected her to roll past one tennis player after another in a masterful and dominant binges after she became the toast of the tennis community and darling of the crowd wherever she played.
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Of course, these setbacks could happen because primarily she is only human. Even a machine conks out.
Even IBM's supercomputer Deep Blue lost to human chess champion Garry Kasparov in their first 1996 match, 4-2, in Philadelphia though IBM later beat him in a 1997 rematch.
A humanoid robot developed by Beijing Innovation Centre of Humanoid Robotics (and another model named Lightning by Honor) successfully beat Usain Bolt’s iconic 100m world record of 9.58 seconds.
During the World Humanoid Robot Games in Beijing, a robot clocked an unprecedented 9.39 seconds, reaching peak speeds of 14.5 meters per second.
In long-distance running, the autonomous robot Lightning shattered human benchmarks by finishing the Beijing half-marathon in a blistering 50 minutes and 26 seconds, surpassing the official human world record of 56:51.
Humanoid robots built by tech companies like X-Humanoid cleared 2.88 meters in a standing jump format, shattering the human high jump world record of 2.45 meters set by Javier Sotomayor.
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Many fans though Eala was invincible and possessed supernatural ability and talent that no tennis player in the planet could measure up to her skills—except that they forgot she’s also human being.
Especially when she bursted into our imagination with scintillating performances in her best and most significant career wins that included major tournament titles and high-profile upsets against the following WTA Top 10 players:
—2026 Mubadala D.C. Open where she defeated world no. 3 Jessica Pegula 4–6, 6–4, 6–0 in the finals to capture her first career WTA Tour singles title (WTA 500), pushing her into the WTA Top 20 for the first time.
— 2025 Miami Open quarterfinals where she stunned world no. 2 Iga Swiatek 6–2, 7–5 during a breakout wild-card run.
— 2025 Miami Open third round where she shocked world no. 5 Madison Keys 6–4, 6–2.
— 2026 Wimbledon third round where she upset world no. 3 Iga Swiatek 7–6(9), 6–2 on grass.
— 2026 Indian Wells Open third round where mowed down World no. 4 Coco Gauff 6–2, 2–0 ret.
— 2026 Berlin Tennis Open where she clobbered world no. 2 Elena Rybakina 7–5, 6–4 in the second round and world no. 8 Elina Svitolina 6–3, 6–4 in the quarterfinals.
— 2026 Dubai Tennis Championships second round where she manhandled world no. 8 Jasmine Paolini 6–1, 7–6(5).
— 2022 US Open where she captured the US Open Girls' Singles title, becoming the first Filipino to win a junior Grand Slam singles crown.
(The author is based in New York City and used to be the editor-in-chief of two leading daily newspapers in Iloilo, Philippines.—Ed)