“When a man wears his pants that tight, they tend to pinch his balls, and that tends to pinch his temper.”
—Anne Bishop, Queen of the Darkness
By Alex P. Vidal
IN a democratic society, criticism is essential and important because it provides an objective, external perspective that drives personal growth, refines skills, and prevents blind spots.
In fact, those working in government and holding higher positions must encourage constructive criticism because it acts as an objective tool to improve accuracy, break through the danger of comfort zones, and spark creative problem-solving.
Philippine Defense Secretary Gerardo “Gilbert” Teodoro, Jr. probably forgot this ethos, judging by his emotional outburst over a social media criticism of the mid-air collision that killed four Philippine Air Force (PAF) pilots.
He reacted angrily and strongly condemned as "traitors" those who criticized the bizarre jet collision on October 23, 2026, in Lipa City, Batangas.
Teodoro’s rage was unnecessary and unpalatable, to say the least.
A critic does not become a traitor for expressing spoken or written disapproval over certain subject matters. Traitors wish for our destruction. Critics help us grow, improve, and correct our imperfections.
The critic’s views, no matter how unacceptable or undesirable, are normal and necessary in a democracy because power must be held in check, and public debate drives accountability and progress.
Passionate feedback and disagreement show that people have a stake in their communities, signaling whether policies actually serve the public good.
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Teodoro Jr., popularly known as “Gibo,” blasted as "sarcastic and inhuman" social media comments regarding the mid-air training accident involving two SF-260 aircrafts.
He deplored the sarcastic posts as "unacceptable" and a "slap in the face" to the sacrifices of the Armed Forces of the Philippines (AFP).
The defense boss went as far as calling those who were supposedly poking fun at the tragedy as "traitors to the Republic" who "do not deserve to be called Filipinos."
The country’s 23rd national defense secretary dismissed claims of military incompetence, explaining that tactical training requires tight formation flying, and rejected attempts to link the crash to external tensions with China.
The defense chief, a lawyer, honored the fallen pilots for choosing military service over commercial careers while deferring final conclusions to the official Air Force Safety Office investigation, noting that the PAF temporarily grounded its SF-260 fleet.
Processing feedback correctly strengthens emotional self-control, deepens self-awareness, and helps separate identity from output.
It is widely believed that when delivered constructively with supporting evidence and clear criteria, criticism prevents arguments, solves problems, and deepens mutual understanding.
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Anxieties have taken roots six days before the November 3, 2026, U.S. midterm elections even as overwhelming predictions point to Democrats winning control of the House of Representatives.
“But what is remarkable about the Senate is that, so close to Election Day, the battleground map is still wide and unsettled, making both parties nervous,” observed Patricia Mazzei of New York Times.
“The spending reflects the ongoing Senate fight: Republicans are outspending Democrats on advertising in the seven Senate races considered tossups by the nonpartisan Cook Political Report. By comparison, Republicans have only a narrow spending edge in House races.”
Mazzei noted that several scenarios remain possible. Competitive Senate races could tighten in Republicans’ favor as they get their most loyal supporters to the polls.
Democrats, she added, could do well in red states but struggle in some bluer ones. Or the bottom could fall out for Republicans in a potential wave that Democrats are too apprehensive to consider after past disappointments.
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LOLLYPOP. Some of our greatest words go back to the mother country, and lollypop is one such example. Even in some parts of England today, lolly is the word used for tongue. Take a piece of candy that pops in and out of your mouth (as in the case with Americanized sucker) and you've got lollypop! (It just sounds more proper than our word, don't you think?)
WHITE AND BLACKMAIL. If there's such a thing as blackmail, is there a whitemail? Yes! Scottish farmers in the mid-16th century paid their landlords by either silver (known as whitemail) or produce (blackmail). The latter was the least preferred, so it was often abused. When greedy landlords forced cashless tenants to pay far more in goods than they would've paid in silver, blackmail took on its negative connotation.
GOD BLESS YOU: Why would we have "God bless you" after a sneeze? In much the same way that it was believed man could part body and spirit and be beside himself, the ancients believed a good sneeze could literally blast your soul right out of your body! To ensure that no bad spirits moved into the vacancy, "God bless you" was said to clear the way so soul and body could reunite.
SAVING OUR PLANET: Panel in warmth. We must choose wood paneling for our bathroom to help keep in heat and reduce air pollution. But we have to make sure we wax rather than varnish it--varnish releases fumes when it gets warm. Wooden floors are a good choice, too. (1001 little ways to save the planet).
(The author is based in New York City and used to be the editor-in-chief of two leading daily newspapers in Iloilo, Philippines.—Ed)